I had just about made my mind up that I was going to send W a txt message asking if she did indeed want to come chat about her choice for D or whatever...Instead, I got a call from her. She did call for some buisness to be sorted out. Like always the call was good, maybe better than normal, lots of laughter & good conversation. She did show alot of intrest in what I have been upto, so that was quite good.
However....Then came the ace card, she said...I still need to come & talk about what we said we needed to talk about (meaning the D, I guess) She said she has not had time to come...of course not, I mean 4 weeks is such a short time, how could she possibly find the time ? So I simply said, sure no problem, I told her my work hours for this week & also next week. I'm not sure if she commited herself to a time & day, but she did say she will come (again)
I'm not sure how things will go when she comes or if she comes. This is how I will handle it...
I will be polite, carm & happy as always. I will act as if things could not be any better for me & be quite happy to go along with the D...If she is the one to file.
Now, here's what i'm not so sure about...Do I tell her it's not my choice to get a D but will go along with it but make it clear that it is her choice.
OR...Should I just say, sure a D is the best idea all round, knock yourself out.
It does puzzle me a little as to what she thinks needs to be said anyway. I mean, it's a D that she more then likely wants, whats to talk about? She files, I think about signing, take my time a little here & there...case closed.
I know the two main reasons that people file for D over here are...Adultry & Unreasonable Behaviour. Of course she falls into the adultry part & i'm guessing thats what she would want me to file for & she will accept & sign, job done...However, I think if she files she could only file for Unreasonable Behaviour on my part, whether that be true or not, which it is not, she could still file herself.
I have to say that she's coming here to try & get this sorted out asap. She has shown no signs of wanting anything else in the 3 months that we have been seperated.
