I actualy set this up when she left by telling her she was welcome to spend time with the kids here when ever she wants. So I guess thats whats shes doing. I also think the more that she wants to have a normal family life that the more effort she will put into to sorting out our issues. What this means is more hard work for me , I have enjoyed my rest but now its back to DB'ing while I have a great opportunity , trying different things and testing the results. Keeping expectations in check and , not trying to control W are the two biggies.
This is all good realy I think , looking back 6 months I would have given anything to have the sort of friendly interaction we have now .
