I think you had some very good suggestions. Esp about men not being too good at emotional stuff & reading minds.
I am going to make a very specific list of my needs and what he needs to do meet them and bring it to the MC this weekend to discuss. A written list in case he needs to look at it, keep it in his pocket...etc. Then we will be very clear no mind reading needed!
I think all you gents are right that it may take a 2'4 to the skull to drive some of these points home...but I am still willing to make a go it.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.