Here is the story, all the problems between my H and I started when he started talking to this OW. He says they didn't do anything and he was just her friend. He went from calling me 5 to 10 times a day to calling HER 5 to 10 times a day. That is how all this came about. I became obsessed with the looking at the phone calls.
He is actually supposed to get out of the air force in Jan and was looking for a job. He thought he had found one at a local radio station....well, guess who works there. The OW. After asking him not to talk to her and him still talking to her, I heard a voice mail that she had left him. In reaction to that, I sent her a text message. Not a very nice one, but basically said to quit texting, emailing, and calling my husband. Almost a week went by and no phone calls, he had gone to the radio station to see about the job and he told me that they told him they decided not to hire him. They had apparently decided this because they knew about the message (it was to her personal phone) and they didn't want a "situation".
Since that day, there have been no phone calls that I know of. That has been about a week. Well, in the meantime, he left and went to a hotel. I checked today, I know I shouldn't, but I just can't seem to help myself. SHE had called HIM. I am having a hard time not reacting by sending her something or calling her, or calling him. I think I need someone to talk me out of this and give me some good reasons why I shouldn't. We never had problems until she was in the picture. We would fight from time to time, but it was usually over with in a couple of hours.
