H coming today, what do I do when he asks how I am

[NikB]

He is angry, but probably at himself more than anything. You on the other hand sound like you are on a strong path and doing really well with it too.

Or quite possibly angry with you BECAUSE you are on such a strong path and doing so well. My H got really mad when I started "turning his head" again. He was resolved, he had his mind made up, and I was making him rethink things. It made him mad. But what's the way to "not" do that - become weak, pathetic, make him "sure" he wants out again, and make yourself miserable at the same time?? Ummm.. NO! So you keep on doing what you're doing. If he's mad that you're happy, doing well, strong... well, that's his problem.