OK, we are going throught the same thing. I think it is a power struggle with a lot of ego. Here is my question: I still let my H know that this is our home and we want him to come back home. I never pressure or bring it up, I just talk like that in general conversation. Like, "Do you want me to bring the swimsuit to swim camp or leave it at home?" I do not say my house, but he does now. Oh so contrived. I also ask where should WE plant the new tree or hang the kids new photo. You may have heard that my H is house hopping and his hosts are talking bad about him to me now. I think he may have to move in with his parents or shack up soon. Pathetic. I am so glad I have a home for me and the kids.
Last edited by mkultra; 07/24/0705:18 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
