You just articulated the plan. My resistance to being a bee'otch has been that I don't want him to feel "justified" in leaving. I want him to have seeds of doubt planted everywhere. And honestly, I feel lucky that he still wants to have 'relations', etc since so many others here have spouses that claim to hate them, etc.
Once he has actually made the move, I can employ a different tactic.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
