UB, these men rarely smiled, period. Don't assume that they didn't love us. I know for a fact that he must have loved me at some point or he would never have done some of the things he did in the past. My H used to write little notes with a picture of this little smiling rabbit on them because he knew I loved rabbits. H must have loved me to do something like that all those years.

They just changed. They loved us as much as they were capable of doing.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.