I've asked my W to read the Book

[Chuckwlane]

What I see is every single situation is probably going to be different.

Quick Recap - Saturday 7/21 I told my WAW I was tired of all the lies and cheating behind my back, told her to consider leaving, so she started to pack. I gave her the tough love "if you must go then go" speech, then she took the kids for an overnight "camping" trip. We talked a little over phone afterwards, was good convo. The next day I bought DR on the way home from church. Later that day I found out she was spending the day and time with OM. Boy was I mad. But later we still talked about us. She came home and picked up the book and started reading, just a little and said "that looks very interesting".

I think it is a very good book, exspecially for the one who wants to save the marriage. But there are so many items covered in there that not only suggest positive changes for the saver, but also so many for the runner.

Depending on how your spouse and you really feel about each other, the bond between you, are there kids involved, how close you really are, are you truely best friends.... you may have good results.

My wife is going away this coming weekend, my goal is to finish the book, and then ask her to take it with her if she has any free time, she probably wont have time, but I have to try one way or another.