sigh. i wish you had been more patient, and waited for other book suggestions.

I'm guessing a better book for her to read, for someone who is in "its not my fault, but i'll read something" mode, is a general relationship book. eg: "fall in love, stay in love".

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle