Thanks Lin -- I really appreciate you laying all of that out for me!
When you filed for D the first time and mutually called it off, was he still seeing OW? If so, do you know how she reacted to this?
My W and I were high school sweethearts too, and I thought we'd be together forever. I took her and our M for granted, and just hope that the M can be saved or a new one begin post-D. D day for us is Aug 16th.