OK, may I say at least he called admitted to reading the e-mail and then admitted his feelings. He said he wanted the marriage to work out. Now I guess we're waiting to see when he gets some fire and commitment and really goes after it. But at least he made those steps. I've got a spouse that's still Hokey Pokey, can't tell if she's in or out. Wants to look good on both sides of the fence and doesn't want to be accountable for a "bad decision".