CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

[GoodGuy]

GD,
The guy I work with, his wife had a EA for a while, he is a changed man, she saw that and wanted him back.
The guy I play cards with, I'm not sure if she had OM, neither is he, she moved out west for 7 months, moved back home about a month ago and they are both very happy together.
Your wife has a BF, so what! They have an emotionally charged relationship for now, that will fade as it does for everyone, he has bad habits just like the rest of us, give it 6 months.
If she goes through with the divorce, be a stand up guy, be a great dad, be her friend, be kind, help her when she needs it.
At the end of the day, you'll be the star, she will always have regrets about leaving, you are the father of her kids. You will win in the end,
good luck,
Jeff