I Won't Walk Out the Loser

[Lillieperl]

Choc, you've grown so much during this process... I know you didn't want it to come to this, but there are two of you in this, and you can't do the other person's part for them. We're here for ya, buddy.

In my mind, D is always the last option and often one that you can never take back.

This is most certainly NOT true. Yeah, you can't take back the fact of D, but there are plenty of people who split up, grow, and come back together. I'm not saying that will happen here, but divorce is by no means the end of the road. Death is, but not divorce. Lots can happen after divorce.