Hmmmmmmm My WAW and I talk every day, and have been talking more and more about our issues, and reasons we need to work this out. Which of course I enjoy. There is a Retrouvaille next month in Michigan that I asked my wife to attend. She is interested, but a little worried about time because she is also looking for a job, which at this point is her main priority. I have backed way off, and have tried to support her in concentrating on a job. She does not want to have to go away for one weekend and then have to leave for a 2 week training class. I on the other hand really want to save this marriage and think it would be very benificail.

Its hard not to ask how she feels about us, or talk about our relationship. I have changed to only talked about it when she brings it up.

I am hoping she still will be interested in the program, and will agree to go with me.

Congrats on getting the stregnth and realization for detatchment. Actually some days I think thats what I need as well.


Take care and good luck,
Chuck
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Me: 38
W: 35
D: 15
D: 8
S: 6
D: 6
Together 12 years
Married 9 Years
Still thinking positive!!!!!!!