This is a tough question and I don't think there is an easy answer. I also want to believe that my W is close to ready to come home. She is spiraling out of control and looks terrible. She gave me too hugs yesterday, told me I looked really good and spent about 2 hours hanging around with me when she could have been hanging around with other members of her family. However, I don't think this is enough. I am very cautious about spew. I basically get none and I want to keep it that way. Not because I don't want the spew but because I don't want to put my W in a spot where she wants to say something that will make it harder for her to come home when she is ready.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
