Two good but conflicting approaches. Cinders, he does not have an OW exactly. He has a "best friend" EA (married, two kids, bi-polar, drinking problem, OH SO needy) going on that seems to have dwindled but I couldn't say because I no longer ask or pay any attention when her name is mentioned. I just act as if she is any other person he knows that I don't know that well. I am polite but disinterested. But he says it is not sexual and I have no reason not to believe him. He's been BRUTALLY honest about everything else.
I guess I just have to play it by ear. If he initiates interaction today and asks what I'm doing I'll tell him. If he says he wishes he was playing, I'll say, "Come on." Otherwise, no invite. Sound good?
...still hanging in there!
M - 40 H - 45 (Big Time MLC - Currently House Hopping) S - 11 (w/ Asperger's Syndrome Autism) D - 5 (w/ Type 1 Diabetes) 1 Dog and 2 Cats Married 10/92, Bomb 10/06, H moved out Mother's Day 07 (Sweet huh?)
