cades,

I have not read that one yet. I have another on stress. Also the "save my marriage" books if you would like.

Talking to my W on the phone after the appt. she asked if I would still be able to take son to swimming. I said yes. Well I screwed up I thought it was at 5:30 and It was at 5:00. At 5:30 when nobody showed up I called W. She told me it was at 5:00 'IT WAS WRITTEN ON THE BOARD". I told her I sorry I had allot of things on my mind today and thought is 5:30. I talked to the instructor and got him in the 6:00 class. Called W back and told her this. W came home in a BAD mood. I just agreed with everything she said. I caught some kind of virus on my lab top and asked my wife to look at it for me. (She is good with soft wear). When she was looking at it she saw one of my short cuts to a "Save my marriage" book I was standing behind her (she knew I was there) and read "save my marriage" out loud and said 'I see you were looking at some strange web site" I didn't say anything.
She was in a pretty pissy mood the rest of the night. Kind of brought me down. Then I remembered I need to work on my own happiness. I have to admit. She does not want to talk R or M issues. The thought did cross my mind if I severed her Separation papers maybe then she mite want to talk about it then.. But like you said, I can’t do anything if I am not ready to follow through with it.

Husband


Husbnd


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know