UMMM.....isn't piecing about communicating and not repeating the same mistakes?
Why are you so afraid to tell her how you feel?
Why are you too afraid to establish boundaries?
To me it seems as though you are walking on eggshells and your wife is continuing the exact same behavior as before.
This does not sound like much of a reconcilliation but rather like someone who has settled because he was too afraid to expect change and for her to make compromises.
You can continue to live this way, and let her rule the roost, and do whatever she wants, or you can learn how to communicate the fact that you are unhappy and want to work together on this Marriage.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
