My room mate wife

[WAW in the OC]

Husband,

Sounds like you're getting a lot of use out of the "Stop your divorce" book. It recommends agree w/ everything. I'm finding a lot of success w/ it. Today the wife mentioned she might take my kids to Boomers(a kids restaurant) and asked if I wanted to go(drive myself). It was actually an invitation!! I told her, if it didn't bother her that I was there I'd be happy to go. Well she didn't end up going, but the fact is she offered to invite me. I do think it's the thought that counts.

Today we also e-mailed each other the fact that she'll be serving me soon for divorce. I spoke to her on the phone and asked if she still wanted a D. She said yes. I then asked if she could tell me why(as if OM wasn't enough reason), then I said when she's ready she could tell me. All the while I was agreeable and indifferent.

It sounds like you are fairing well. I've had my relapses in private where I totally loose it and just start balling like a baby. Then there are moments where I'm so happy to be free of the troubles we had. If you have any insight I'd love to know. I'm just going day to day. Lunching with some very attractive women and enjoying it thoroughly. I even sensed a touch of jealousy when I mentioned I wanted to take our kid to the doctor since she seemed very nice(and perhaps single).

Anyway, just wanted to congratulate you on the use of your agree w/ anything and let you know there are many other useful techniques in that book. Things like indifference to the divorce, acting happy(DR), sympathize w/ them. Keep reading it, it's really been a great help.

Best of luck w/ the house mate.