I was surprised the St said the following. ST also wants us to talk about the A at least 3 times this week.
I was wondering if other situations need to be talked about 3x a week?
I was wondering if situations like Karen1's and Hairdog's would improve if talked about 3X a week.
Maybe discussing the issues, coupled with activity is what solved the NOP's problems. Maybe the HW’s need to do the sensate activities 3X a week for a while, to move forward.
I wonder if some of us posters would also benefit by bringing up our own R issues 3X a week?
the very next day and apologize to her for being so rude.. Sounds like indecission, nice guy, as in NMMNG, traits.
From the NG forum. suggestions for your H to do/consider if I was talking to him as a friend. Start by writing down all the things your mind commits itself to doing. Just writing them down helps close the loops and takes away stress and guilt.
Break big jobs into manageable pieces. Determine the “next action required” for each activity or project, if the next action required is not clearly identified, your mind will picture the demands of the project in it’s entirety --
Nice Guys tend to make most things in life way too complicated. As a result, they end often end up doing nothing at all.