GD, I work with a guy who also filed for divorce from his WAW, neither one showed up for the hearing, so it got shelved. They are now back together. I also play cards every Wednesday with another guy who's wife left, filed, but never went through with it either, and they are now back together. So, it ain't over for you yet brother, keep the faith.
Were either of these sitchs plagued by an OM or OW? If so, how did those elements factor in?
Thanks for the optimism -- don't see much hope for my sitch though (not anytime soon anyway). W just moved in with her new BF, so they're getting closer as our D draws near. I'm looking at possibly several years down the road. I just hope that circumstances are such at that time that we can give it a chance to work out.