CVA, I agree! Feelings can come back. I have had times over the years when I thought my feelings had faded but they sure are back now. I don't know, sometimes I think we get so caught up in life, kids, work that we forget about the marriage, figuring it doesn't need any work. I got caught up in the little games of us being competetive. It was like we kept a tally of everything we did or didn't do and threw it in the other persons face. There are so many little things that I have finally seen the light on. I will not live that way anymore. I have changed a lot. Well see if it is enough. My W took her rings off when she had the cast put on her wrist. The cast comes off in a week and a half. It will be intersting to see if she puts them back on. Matt
