The fat lady is warming up.... 2

[big_tuna]

alamogirl- Old fool has lots of wisdom doesnt he....i still go read his replies to my posts from a while back as im 95 days post D today (who's counting!..lol)...you sound great and i think you will do great with the attitude you have...ive too stuck around here even after the D because id like to help others and i still enjoy hearing from others here...my XW has NOT found the grass to be greener by all accounts and still hugs and kisses me every time we see each other with an occassional ILY thrown in for good measure....i actually feel sorry for her as she has lost so much beside body weight(she's now a size 0)..she has lost her relationship with our s16..many mutual friends....and a think to a large degree her self-respect....a wise man once said...you choose things you lose things...she did....i, like you will go on because we have to..we didnt choose this but i can look myself, my kids,our friends and family straight in the eye knowing i fought tooth and nail to save my marraige...and even though i guess i failed in that regard i would do it over again the exact same way by taking the high road...alamogirl i wish you the best this life has to offer in your future...god bless you....BIG TUNA