CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

[GoodGuy]

My wife just called me and I could tell she'd been crying. My son has just let her know that she is the evil one, she's the one that left, and he asked her if she wants to find someone else or be alone for the rest of her life.
I told her that it's not coming from me, I praise her, no bad words out of me about her.
She reminded me that she is not evil, that she put up with crap for YEARS, it takes two to make it work and two to screw it up she said.
I told her that my son and I are the ones who want it to work, she's the odd one out on it, if it came down to a vote, we would be a family again.
She told me she really doesn't think anything will change about her feelings.
My son and I are leaving Wednesday for 2 weeks vacation. I am going to take my ring off for those two weeks and see where it leads me. She's only been gone (out of the house)for just over 3 weeks, but I'm not sure how long I want to wait?
I need answers.
GD, I work with a guy who also filed for divorce from his WAW, neither one showed up for the hearing, so it got shelved.
They are now back together. I also play cards every Wednesday with another guy who's wife left, filed, but never went through with it either, and they are now back together. So, it ain't over for you yet brother, keep the faith.
BD, I like your fantasy idea. I had a dream I was walking through an outdoor restaurant with a hot brunette and my wife was there with friends. I woke up, don't know what happened!