I think I'll hang around a bit. Maybe, I can do some good for someone else.
Well, I got my total bill. I paid $2K down, and I acquired $900.00 worth of more debt. I should have negotiated sooner .
It's such a relief to know that it's over. The anxiety of waiting was eating me up. There are other things that the ex and I still have to work out, like picking up possessions he left behind. He actually let my brother/wife use two dressers when they first moved in. The ex and I both thought they were going to stay with me a few months, but it's going on a year in Sep and still they haven't found a house.
I still love my ex but I'm sure in time, it will fade. Anyhoo, I'll pop in to check up on ya.
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07