it does feel good to indulge in the fantasy for a minute or two before realizing that's not remotely what I want.
or likely how it would work, H! The fantasy is definitely indulging, though (feels good to hold the reigns for a minute anyway, even if it is false)!
GG,
Like H says, indulging in the notion doesn't hurt, and only act upon it if you KNOW that this is what you want to do both now and forever in the future. This is almost a "point of no return" thing to do. Many months before I found the website and read DR, I took the ring off and filed for D, simply to try and get her attention and cause her to realize that I'm moving on and that this isn't what she really wants. However, it backfired and now I'm stuck with the D proceedings (final Aug 16th). I didn't want it, so now just make sure you've done everything you're willing to do to save your M before throwing in the towel. Find your where your line is and draw it. Be ready to have no regrets on the throwing in of the towel, because they will haunt you (trust me!).
CVA,
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Trying to figure out Orlando w/ my work sched right now. Kinda hectic.
Work schedule, smwork schedule -- just make it happen!