mark, sounds like our spouses are somewhat similar. to the point that they were signing their text messages "gt hearts jc/jc hearts gt" gag. literally. gag. this was a couple of months ago and I actually asked him who, outside of a 14 year old girl, does that? he had the decency to look embarassed by it and said it was a joke. um, yeah, buddy, nice.
anyway, sounds like you are in a good place, or at least very motivated. everything you say is what I know I need to do, too...I know I need to GAL and work on me and stop doing it to save the marriage until H wants to actually get in the game. still, its hard. at least for me it is. I hope I can get there someday.
good luck!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
