This seems to be too big for me sometimes. I just wonder if after all the wanting and hoping that a mate comes to their senses the reality of it all is just too much to deal with realistically. Would it be better to dream of a new life and move in that direction instead of battling emotions all the time. I read the part of DR that recommended imagining a big stop sign and thinking of something else but who wants to live pushing back memories all the time ,wouldn't the energy be better spent creating a new life? Last night I went bike riding and a big dog ran out and bit my leg, just enough to leave teeth marks, while the owner was yelling( as he charged me) " Don't worry Buddy's friendly, he won't bite". Someone needs to have a talk with Buddy. Well anyway, that seems to be whats going on with me. I try to move on and I get bit in the leg! Blessings to everyone, Violets
