I've only seen this thread, because I saw Ellie posted, so I don't know all the background, but I'm going to chime in nonetheless. My kids are home this week so I have to post and run. We have prime trampoline weather here today!
You have to make a decision about what you're going to do and only you can make it. I believe it would be best for you to communicate it to him honestly. If you're unsure whether you can try with him any more, then say that. If you are willing to try, say that. I do not recommend telling him you will try if that is not what you believe in your heart. It might be a way to keep an eye on him, but I believe it would only backfire in the end.
Maybe it's sexual addiction, notoriously difficult to treat, and maybe it's something else. (My ex-wife had at least three OM in the last few months before she moved out. Is she addicted to sex? To relationships? To "danger?" I have no idea.) Your H's actions sound very much like those of someone who does have a demon pursuing him.
I would suggest that you get some face-time with someone whom you trust to go through your feelings and your options about this. If you decided to stick it out, it would be very helpful for you to have some feedback from your H's counselor or therapist.
Was2sad,
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What is rape? My understanding is that most often it is a crime of anger against women and not a crime of lust.
Rape is a crime of sexual violation against anyone, male or female, child or adult.
Thanks,
Joe
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