cades,
ouch. I have not replyed or heard from my OP since I got back. last thing she did was send me a e-card.
I had to E-mail a sweet young thing at work about a problem a few minutes ago and thought how come if I had and affair I would be scared Sh@tless of her husband finding out. But it seem here the OM & OW don't care?

got to go pick up my son back soon

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know