If you and your wife have not taken a vacation in New Orleans in a while, you should schedule one. My husband and I went to New Orleans for a weekend last month. It was the best vacation we have had in 20 years! We stayed at hotels downtown and wandered the Quarter like tourists. Ate at Nola's and K Paul's, drinks at the Napoleon House, beignets, etc. It was so romantic. And we lived there for 24 years. But visiting was the best. All the old memories came flooding back, and they were of the two of us together. Myabe New Orleans can be the charm for you too.