Hi Guys - I cant handle this anymore. My wife's new business is killing me. Her business account went negative by $400 last week and she just transfered more money over from our equity line on our house that were trying to sell. She transfered $3000 more like its monopoly money. The balance is now up to $12,500. She says to me "you knew is was going to happen when we started this business" I replied "yeah, that was when it was our business now your saying its just yours".
Next, she is just using me whenever she needs me to watch our daughter. She has a big business fair coming up in couple weeks which she says that she has to work everyday from 10am to 10pm including the weekend. I am just supposed to be available whenever she needs me to watch our daughter. I told her we need to come up with a set schedule that is fair for both of us. She says that she cant right now because of her business. Who gives a "flying F" about your business - focus on your family for once.
Last thing that pissed me off this weekend. Her family is coming to town this next week to celebrate her uncle being a christian brother for 25 yrs. She asked me if I can go stay at a friends house for both Thurs and Fri because she needs the beds and also because its too uncomfortable for them to see me right now. I have known these people for 11yrs and she doesnt want them to see me. I told her that "it is really hurtful that you wont let me see your family at all while their going to be in town next week". She said maybe later after everything is over (D?) and that I need to find my own way to mourn and grieve. She is such a selfish B lately. I dont know what to do anymore. Her stupid job is more important then her D and H. I think filing for S will let her know that I have excepted her feelings. After 5mons she is still saying Im sorry you deserve to be happy. I just cant do this anymore.
So I guess were done. She has not changed her tune at all. I have been Dbing my heart out. 180s. Being nice. helpful. She still is not willing to even reconsider at all. I dont know what to do anymore. I just want our house to sell so we can get our own seperate places. It hurts too much to be around her. She doesnt care about what this is doing to our daughters future. I just dont know what to do anymore??? Should I file for S to seperate our finances? This is now her business. Why should I help her with her business? When we started it 7 mons ago it was our business but now she has made it clear that its all about her. UGH!!!
