Not if you want to stay married. You need to realize this only gets better on her timeframe. You need to GAL, work on yourself, have no expectations, read this. Still most of us will not be successful (I'm packing to move out forever this week). Read books, get counseling, find a support group, figure out what you did wrong so you don't do it wrong next time, and if you're so inclined, pray.
I married someone who still claims she never loved me and who does not have the capacity to imagine any life with me beyond what it was three years ago. You might be more fortunate.
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach