Thanks for your input here, I don't feel so alone in this now- Not that I am happy you are dealing with similar issues. I too have watched those movies with my H and we have purchase things from a novelty store to "spice up "things in the bedroom. I am far from being conservative in bed. He has usually shared fantasies and such with me so I pretty surprised that he has looked elsewhere and actually hurt that he felt he couldn't share with me
Lisa
Sounds a LOT like H and I. We've done the exact same things I've never really put much thought into the whole sexual addiction thing until recently. He will never admit. Never get any help unless he hits rock bottom for some reason. He thinks he just has a high sex drive. He's like the freaking energizer bunny if you ask me. 4-5 times a day is not enough for him. It gets crazy sometimes.
BFM
or I guess I should say it GOT crazy sometimes. None of that going on right now.
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