Yep
She actually went and saw my counselor (after I suggested it to help me with my issues) without telling me she was going.

Then I had the "bad day" when I went to see what she said. The C basically said, I think she is waiting for you to take action, file or whatever, it was totally unclear. She is happy on the fence and living life the way she is living it. I believe this was all his interpretation cuz when I pressed him on what she actually said "not much really". I concluded I had led him to a lot of his conclusions about her being happy in our lifestyle that I was providing and that she is not really anxious to do anything one way or another.

I came away from that pretty upset, not knowing what was really said, so I am taking Nomo up on his suggestion of a C that I can hopefully get W to go see as well under the guidelines you all point out above.

So, long way of saying, I will be trying what you both suggest.

Thanks for keeping up w/ me.

Hey, are you guys in Orlando? I thought that was August? Or is it Austing or some other DBing trip that was kept double top secret!!!

CVA


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.