BeingMe, Thanks for sharing that email. Well said. Good plan. You've been at this longer than I so I guess if you can keep going, maybe I can too.
I bet it will be harder to live up to that email than you might think. I keep trying not to have R talks, but the pressure builds, and builds, the uncertainty builds, then an R talk slips out.
Others have come through this and gotten their marriage back. We can too. Or, we'll be happy and live our life's. Kind of a win win situation, in a dark, crazy way.
Good luck, thanks again for sharing.
I love the quotes too. Good advice.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread