OK, focusing way too much on her. Get my own stuff straight and she won't be able to resist me. But I can't do it with the aim of getting her in the sack, enthusiastically or otherwise.

I'm starting to think her attraction went down when I started stressing out about job interviews and mainly about deciding which way was the right way to go. She was super-supportive and worked really well with me... and lost respect for me? Is that all it takes? Or am I reading this wrong?

Now I find myself wondering along with cemar just what I need a woman for? Not emotional support, not if getting it from her means you lose her respect.

Again, I'm freaking out and overanalyzing her, which is not going to get me anywhere. Must get back to work and keep up the positive, confident, can-do attitude. Hopefully a week or two of strenuous exercise will get me back in the state I need to be for any sort of a genuinely happy life, with or without her.

Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 07/23/07 06:44 PM.
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