Those comments like "you can take over my garden" and yet not firming up a routine for seeing each other... crazymaking for sure. Has he ever been married? If so, did they live at this house?
Well, there are some practical complications. The house is one he purchased after divorcing. He has every other week joint custody of his kids and I have full custody of my D16 so there is a certain amount of sneaking around that has to be planned unless/until we get to a stage where our kids are aware that we are seeing each other. Also, we live about 2 hours away from each other so it's not like we can just meet for a quickie very easily if a kid-free opportunity arises. Basically, he can't come to my house at all because my daughter is always potentially around and so we have to do all our dating and mating in his neck of the woods when his kids aren't around so I'm actually more stuck in waiting by the phone mode than most women would be. I just have no clue how most high drive divorced people who have kids handle this stage of things.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
