The categories "boyfriend," "lover," "someone I'm dating" can overlap but not necessarily. OK, I see the difference.
I know Mojo didn't have any control as to what the guy asked her. I was thinking the more non-descript her answer was, the better.
It reminded me of the wrong way to ask a woman for a date (What are you doing x night) when he should have asked something like (if I am not of line and you are interested, I would like to go on a date/what ever, with you). No prying into Mojos life, just straight intent on his part.