Something both my C said and L (I consulted) said that the C she recommends (as a "M miracle worker") does is to suggest to the WAS that their involvement in the IC would be helpful to her client in order for her client to move forward w/her life after D. . . or to help them both co-parent in the best way after D. . . Totally takes pressure off the WAS, and they can go to C session believing it will not be a blame-fest or make-a-decision intervention. Then (as in Nomo's case), the WAS can feel comfortable talking/sharing & NOT making a M-decision; but, esp if they keep going, or do not say No when you/C want to schedule another C session to "go deeper" or "talk more about...", and more & more M or R issues are raised and, before you know it, you may be making R progress. Has your C not suggested something like this?
