Originally Posted By: CVA
Thanks
The question seems to be a big Pink Elephant in the room. I dont want to destroy progress by saying, "would you consider...MC..." This is where I get uncomfortable because I have met with "I dont know", "Cant promise you anything" etc, etc when I did ask before at the beginning.

Basically, I am scared to ask!
CVA


She sounds like my h. I didn't know if he was going to be at the most recent C session until I was on the way there. He also wouldn't commit to the next session in 2 weeks.

I forget if your IC would be the MC too? Could you say that you'd like her to come to the next session, but you understand that she's not sure if she wants to go (validate, validate, validate), and then tell her the time and place? Ask her to let you know the night before or the morning of?

It sounds like you had a good weekend with her and the kids!


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08