CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

[waw1978]

I know what your saying about W having a hard time talking. I am def going through that myself.

I think you are making great progress not crowding her. Seems to be working, keep it up.

When you are making these plans is she readily coming along? Going to dinner/outings with you etc without opposition?

I guess if she is going places with you when she could be saying that she doesn't want to, then that is progress. If you feel that there will be no R progress without mentioning MC then i would go for it. You are already living in apt and no mention of when & if this separation will be over. If you think she might go for it, then I would put the MC thing out there. make sure she knows that ball is in her court, you are willing to go and work on the M. Worse case, she says no.