my husband has not told me that he has ended the affair but whenever my son calls him he usually comes over right away to get him. Or if i drive by the apt. from a distance i see his truck home and i know what kind of car o/w has and its not there. he use to not have his cell phone on when he came over but now he does. but she could be calling him at home though.and I read once the A has been discovered it can change the whole dynamics of the A and cause it to end. They no longer can live in their fantasy world and the reality of consequences of the A set in. This is what Im hoping has happened. He may realize he has destroyed our family and my son will hate him if he goes off with her. H and S have a very close relationship.