CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

[Not Much Left]

It was positive. Felt great to be home. Did my best not to crowd my W. Again, offer to take kids places separately, go to dinner, errands etc and it always is just an understanding we are going together. Unless I were to say, I am taking them and you are not going, we will go together. I think this is all good?

Anyhow, another "talk" with S9 and prayer from him that just blows me away.


Have to go get D11 tonight from a party she is going to so will definitely be home.

Question that keeps going through my mind.

What will be the catalyst that turns this around. Assuming she can get to a place where she actually wants to work on the R and me come home, we have always had a 3rd party bring us back together and without that, which I dont know will happen anytime soon, i.e. MC, I dont see a "decision" being made by her where she can defer to a 3rd party to tell me what is Ok or not. She has such a hard time talking to me, she just will never come out and say something that turns this around.

Any thought WAW?