The only difficulty (and a big difference from you) was that I was truly mourning the end of my marriage because my XH and I were so meant for each other, were so in love with each other and had had such a great marriage. For better or worse, I don't think you have that complication!!
That's true but I have a problem that is almost the opposite. It's almost like I have this nihilistic feeling that love doesn't really exist because I feel nothing for my 2bx anymore. Because I so purposefully set about detaching myself from the relationship emotionally, I have this sense that beyond infatuation or chemical attraction which one is always able to discount or rationalize or get over, love is always a choice and therefore only exists if you will it, not as something alive and free in the world.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
