One of my best friends went thru a divorce, by his decision. After giving all he thought he could for a few years, and reflecting back on a previous relationship that was ended against his will, he decided that he could not control anyones actions but his own. And he is right. I am realizing that now as well. Everything outside of me is out of my control. You can talk till your are blue in the face or your spouses ears bleed, but all you can control is you and your actions.


Take care and good luck,
Chuck
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Me: 38
W: 35
D: 15
D: 8
S: 6
D: 6
Together 12 years
Married 9 Years
Still thinking positive!!!!!!!