Anything we say or do along those lines will get us nowhere! Dawn, you've got to stay calm no matter what if you want to get your H back. You need to decide what you really want. If you do want your H back, you're going to have to start getting past the hurt, anger, resentment, etc. Yes, for awhile you are going to continue to think he is still cheating. Has he told you he ended it?

Husband, good job w/ your W. Keep going and you're going to get to where you want/need to be in your M. Hope the dr appt goes well \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10