In your relationsship, does she expect to "initiate" all converstaions between the two of you?
She does initiate most of them, come to think of it. I hadn't really noticed that, or stopped to consider whether it's an issue with her. Thanks for bringing it up. She seems pretty enthusiastic about most of our conversations when she starts them, and I don't cut them off or shy away from them at this time.
It seems that she's only interested in conversation at certain times, and the most reliable sign of when that is is when she's starting one with me. Also, I still seem to be carrying around the assumption that she's not going to be interested in a lot of the things I like to think about or would like to talk about... I guess Mr. zuzu isn't the only one that hasn't completely let go of things that happened in 1992.
So is it "fair"? You'll have to ask her. But just calling something "unfair" doesn't change it one bit.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
