My H insists C of any kind is a waste of time and while he found her easy to talk to, he didn't think it was helping. Maybe I'll wait for a few days and if he brings it up explore. He says MC made him more depressed and angry and it just made things worse. I think cause talking about his feelings is so hard for him, it took a lot out of him and made him focus on what's wrong within him so he couldn't only say I had failed him but had to explore inside of him. He also has yet to reach the place where he opens his mind and his heart to receive any help. I can't get there for him but for now I do need a counsellor to help me grow...happy I don't think so but at least get me to "I'm OK".